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Wednesday, 1 February 2012

Love Yourself

Here is just I want to share with you all a marvelous and very well said hyper hyper explanatory article that I read in Speaking Tree.

LOVE YOURSELF...because you can’t give what you don’t have, says Wayne Dyer.

Your thoughts create your reality because your thoughts determine how you respond to situations in your daily life. Those responses are the energy you have inside of you to give away. If you feel anger, it’s because you have anger energy in your body. Like everything in our universe, your thoughts are a form of energy. Everything that you feel and experience is the result of what I call attractor energies. This means that you get back what you put into the world. Thus, what you’ve attracted to you is what you have to give away to others.

Low energy attracts low energy. Some of the low energy thoughts are anger, hate, shame, guilt and fear. Not only do they weaken you, but they attract more of the same. By changing your inner thoughts to the higher frequencies of love, harmony, kindness, peace, and joy, you’ll attract more of the same, and you’ll have those higher energies to give away. These higher and faster frequencies that empower you, will automatically nullify and dissipate the lower energies in the same way that the presence of light makes darkness disappear.

Respecting Yourself

By becoming more loving toward yourself, you will attract more of the higher, faster energies and begin to change what’s inside you. In your thoughts, cultivate an inner voice and attitude that’s 100 per cent of the time for you. Imagine an aspect of yourself that only supports and loves you. You might schedule a certain time of the day when that’s the only thought that you allow yourself to pay attention to. Gradually this attitude will extend to other people even if you can only do it for a minute or two.

You’ll begin to receive this energy back and ultimately be able to send thoughts of love and joy to everyone and everything in your world. Notice when your thoughts drift into the lower energy of ridicule or hate or guilt, and change the thought at that very moment, if at all possible. If you’re unable to change the thought, then at least love yourself for what you did do — that is, for noticing.

Make a pact to remind yourself often of this secret of not being able to give away anything that you don’t have. Then work on your programme of self-love, self-respect and self-empowerment, and create a huge inventory of what you wish to give away....

The Irony Of Giving

If you wanted to give a dozen oranges to your neighbour as an expression of love, you obviously would need to be in possession of 12 oranges.... Likewise, you can’t give love away to others if you don’t have any for yourself. You can’t show respect for others if you lack self-respect. You can’t give happiness away if you feel unhappy. And of course, the reverse is true.... You can only give away what you do have and all that you’re giving away daily are items from your own personal inventory. If you give away hatred, it’s because you’ve stored up hatred inside you to give away....

This concept is simplified by a description of squeezing an orange. When you squeeze an orange, you’ll always get orange juice to come out. This is true, regardless of who does the squeezing, what time of day you squeeze, what instrument you use to squeeze, or what circumstances surround the orange squeezing. What comes out is what’s inside. The same logic applies to you.

When someone squeezes you, puts pressure on you, or says something unflattering or critical; and out of you comes anger, hatred, bitterness, tension, depression, or anxiety, it’s because that is what’s inside.

The irony is that you can’t give away what you don’t have because you’re always giving what you do have.
So the basic thing is we have to love our self a lot everyday before we start our day. Seems very simple no, but in real it is the most difficult and long to achieve goal of everyone. When we really love us then there will be no violence, only peace and peace every where. The world will be full of its harmoniousness and all will be a very well actually.

With Love Swagatika 


  1. Excellent Article.liked the way you have constructed this post. It is really motivating. Kudos to you.

    1. Thanks a ton to U Karthick. I am flattered. Thanks u for the patience to read my blog. I am impressed.

  2. very inspiring thoughts.. "love yourself to give love" very beautiful!

  3. how wonderful dear, this is such a nice piece of work, keep the posts coming dear. with posts like this, i am longing for more and more.
    go on, sky is the limit.

  4. Totally!! I agree with you :) Thoughts become Things..That's the motto of The Secret ,hope you've heard of it. Loving ourselves and thinking the positive happy thoughts are so good for us!!And the joy of giving brings a world of blessings to us.Gorgeous post!! :)